2017/05/16

everyone is born to be bisexual (the second half)

Bisexuals are those who are least poisoned by culture, or that they have succeeded in resisting cultural poison, while preserving their own qualities that love both man and woman.
There are many people who have sex with the same sex do not admit that they are homosexual .they only admit that they have homosexual sex.
Many people who claim to be absolutely heterosexual claim that they have ever had homosexual sex in certain circumstances. They say that they are very happy when the things are happening; but afterwards, they always feel sick and remorse. They insisted that it was only a moment of “vent” and this has nothing to do with homosexuality. This phenomenon is to explain the rationality of homosexuality. Accidental homosexual sex makes people happy , that is the natural power of the awakening and germination. The feelings of nausea and remorse is the self-blame  of heterosexual cultural ideas. It is the natural power of people which we called “vent”.
Some people reject to eat a kind of food, over time, so that they will be disgusting and vomiting when they are forced to eat. But they will also think the taste is good, if the person is in the case of eating when they don’t know what to eat. It may make us be aware of this problem more intuitively to compare sex to food.
As a living body, we have the right to enjoy the sexual behavior with the same sex and the opposite sex. At the beginning of our birth, we are originally possible to become bisexual. But the culture which around us every day changed us.
My survey also shows that some heterosexual people also can have sex with homosexual people based on curiosity. But their performance is different from these real homosexual people. Some gay man describe that those heterosexuals do not kiss with the tongue when they make love with you, and do not even kiss every part of your body. They only pay all attention to their penis.

2017/05/14

everyone is born to be bisexual (upper half)

the gender relationship of mankind should not have a definite pattern. If there is, the most important thing should not hurt others. If you want to let me explain the “normal gender model”, I have to say that:  it is the most normal and convincing mode that is able to meet the needs of everyone and make people feel good.

What is the purpose of sex? It is for happiness not for breeding. the happiness is the first! So we can say that it is the most reasonable that can bring us physiological pleasure and orgasm. According to this reasoning: bisexuality should be the most rational choice of mankind. Since it can bring us happiness that have sexual relations with man and woman. What are the reasons for rejecting one of them? This kind of happiness is innate and given by nature.

Even if the people who emphasis on the spirit can’t deny the rationality of bisexuality. There are many difference between men and women. We can get the male masculine beauty from male and feel the feminine beauty from female. No wonder it is normal to fall in love with men and women? Is it possible to offer a complementary possibility?
A recent study found that animals are generally practiced bisexual, especially in their childhood by investigating chimpanzee.
Many sex studies shows that the homosexual relationship between adolescents is extremely common. But some live a homosexual life, some live an absolutely heterosexual life after adulthood. If we can boldly speculate: young children seeking sexual pleasure is regardless of object. Sex games can occur between homosexuals and heterosexuality. No matter to play sex games with who, children only care about the happiness of the game, not the gender of the object who play the game with him. This situation is fully explained that sexual happiness is completely independent of the gender. But society began to instill heterosexual patterns into children with the growth of children’s age. That will make people lose the psychological basis of loss to make love with homosexual.



2017/04/21

Bisexual also have the right to marriage

Bisexuality also requires homosexual marriage. Bisexual seems to be able to integrate into homosexual or heterosexual group, but in fact bisexual personal experience that they don’t just like one gender is always be interpreted as “still can like the opposite sex”; bisexual also bear the unsettled feeling that their
Same sex partner will eventually go to marry with the opposite sex, even if the bisexual desire to stay with the same sex partner together forever when the marriage system is limited to the opposite sex.    There are so many bisexuals into heterosexual marriage due to social pressure, they are forced to become heterosexual.
Furthermore, we need not the opposite sex marriage and same-sex marriage, but marriage equal power. Today’s marriage system is not for childbearing for the purpose;The couple who adopt children or have no children run different types of family. Their rights and interests are also protected. It can be seen that even the heterosexual marriage is no longer based on reproduction. If the marriage authority to shrink between the opposite sex, not only does not meet the equal thinking, but also not in line with the social life of social life love and married needs. Moreover,when we only argue that the same sex or heterosexual marriage rights, it is not conducive to the real implementation of the right - "double" sexual life experience is kind of "beyond the single" concept, only triumphant (sex) That is different (sex) dichotomy, return to the fundamental equality of all, the true understanding of bisexuality and acceptance also have a beginning.
Marriage is not only homosexual needs, but the power of marriage should not be exclusive heterosexual relationship; people have the freedom to choose not to marry, there are free to choose to marry, should be able to choose who want to marry; not only homosexuality, not only Bisexual, everyone needs marriage.

2017/04/19

six truth about bisexuality from a bisexual girl

I found that my armpit had grown hair when I was 14 years old, I also noticed a lovely girl in the drama class; she is as warm as fire, she is also very sweet. At the same time, her laughter touched my soul.

She became my love the whole high school period. We found love together. We finished our first sexual intercourse in my bedroom finally. I gave her my virginity and our affirmative ring. I enjoy every minute at that moment.

Many years later, a young gentleman with a bright smile and a developed muscle came into my life. I distributed the toothbrush at the community health park tour. I had to date with him.  
Kissing him, my first sex experience with men is very important. I think I may even have so half a second to be immersed in the pure ecstasy.
Compared to my high school period lover, do I enjoy his touch? The answer is no. Is it more meaningful compared with my sexual experience in high school? Of course not, because I love her so much.
Will the two interfere with each other; Whether they are filled with love or lust? No of course not.
In essence, sexual orientation is never just about sex. It is related to love and connectivity.
The curiosity of bisexual behavior has taken me up. The truth of my story that makes me ashamed is that I like men like women too.
Praiseworthy writers argue that sexual orientation is a simple way of attracting gonads, as if it were to be determined by choosing the sex of the sleep couple. It was ridiculous.
This argument is a kind of humiliation. After studying the human behavior for many years, knowing its complexity and observing its instability, I learned about the following six points:
1. The men who enjoy sexual intercourse between men also can enjoy sexual intercourse with women. The opposite is also.
2. For many people, the logo of loving someone is not just the physical attraction, it is the established emotional connection with each other.
3. After a man sleep with men and women, that doesn’t mean that they are afraid of commitment or sexual desire.
4. If bisexual people falls in love with someone, then, as with most people in society, they can also follow monogamy.
5.  There is no relationship between bisexuality and cowardice.
6.  Bisexuality is not just one thing: it is a kind of biological phenomenon like heterosexuality.
  This makes many people confused, but the confusion is not an excuse to keep you ignorant of this topic.
  Perhaps only when we stop discussing sexual orientation, we can learn to respect each other.


2017/04/17

Top ten bisexual animals inventory


Female monkeys seem more likely to be combined into close relationship, and is a monogamous relationship; that is a female monkey has only one homosexual sex partner for a certain period of time . However, in a breeding period, a female may have a few sex partner with other different females. Male monkeys also have homosexuality, but they will leave each other immediately after completing the mating, just like the one-night standings of human society.



Giraffe is also a kind of common gay animal. Before the mating, two male giraffe will be the neck together to start intimate. This act of love lasts for an hour sometimes. Related research shows that there is one giraffe that can express intimate behavior like this to homosexuality in every 20 giraffes. In many cases, giraffe's gay behavior is more common than heterosexuality.






For the bottlenose dolphins, homosexual mating frequency is almost the same as heterosexual mating frequency. Male bottlenose dolphins are generally bisexual, but they will be complete gay in a period time.




Homosexuality is also common among male amphibians, male homosexual mating is even more common than heterosexual mating, it is mainly because that female amphibian only mate with male amphibian once a year. During the mating season, males mate with homosexuals several times a day sometimes. Approximately 55% of young males have ever had the same mating experience with homosexuality at the young age.






During the breeding season, some female antelopes will mate with several times per hour. In the wild, about 9% of these animals have homosexuality. In courtship, the suitors will quietly slip to the same sex behind, and then lift the front hoof, the other female folder under the body, start with the foreplay.




In the annual mating period, about 20% of the swans are composed of homosexuals. About a quarter of the swan family is gay, and the relationship will last for years. Sometimes a pair of males will find a female to mate. When the female lay eggs, the gay father will swan out the female, and then their hatched eggs together.




Male walrus will not be mature until the age of four. Before that, they only know to make love with homosexuality. A slightly older male walrus is a typical bisexual animal, which mates with homosexuals at other times of the year, except for mating with females during breeding. They hugged each other in the water, The abdomen is rubbing against each other, and even sleep together.




This kind of colorful birds, whose males are particularly keen on homosexuality. About 40% of the male Guyana rock chickens have homosexual tendencies, and even part of the male Guyana rock chicken life has never mated with the opposite sex.




In the gray whale world, homosexuality is very common. In a group, sometimes even up to five male gray whales crowded together, rubbing each other with their belly so that their genitals are accessible.

2017/03/29

revealing five female sexual psychological problems

  Sex has become an indispensable topic in our lives, and for sex, everyone knows more or less. For women, the psychological problems need to have a good understanding. It is based on sexual physiology, and sexuality, sexual desire, sexual behavior has a great relationship. Here, together to understand the next female sexual psychological problems.


  1, sexual fear
There are many reasons for fear of sex. Many women because of various reasons, fear of penis into the vagina. And in the husband and wife sex life is highly tense, it makes sex difficult to complete. Often associated with vaginal convulsion and sexual intercourse pain, long-term fear, can lead to loss of libido. And the long run, it is easy to lead to sexual problems, so that marriage cracks.

  2, sexual quality of life decreased
The occurrence of things is not plain, there is always a reason. Similarly, any side of the couple's sexual life for some reason led to decreased sexual satisfaction, often in the male sexual dysfunction (such as impotence, premature ejaculation) as the first performance, after men's professional treatment is often not satisfactory results.

  3, the opposite sex problems
Normal heterosexual exchanges, will experience love, marriage and other processes. And because of negative experience or sexual concept, led to love, marriage problems frequently, to avoid love, frequent replacement of sexual partners, fear of marriage, extramarital affairs and other issues followed.


  4, fertility problems
There are many reasons for infertility, and sexual health or not also affect infertility. Such as the resistance to pregnancy, dissatisfaction with the marriage, unexplained abortion and premature birth, and sexual health problems are related.

  5, sexual orientation confusion
Today, gay, bisexual and so on more and more. While women are not healthy sex, it is prone to homosexuality, bisexual self-judgment and self-identity and other issues. And thus lead to a variety of confusion, interfere with the normal life


2017/03/23

10 Things You Think About Bisexuals which are not true


"At least when you are bisexual, you do not have to deal with all the bad things gay people have to go through."

  We are happy that you want to assure us that our life will not be so difficult, but it happens that you do not know what you are talking about. We deal with homophobia, and many other horrible things.
Bi-phobia is very real and very alive. For example, sixty percent of bisexual people report hearing jokes and anti-bisexual comments at work. In fact, our statistics show that we are worse off than gay people. Alarmingly, although gay men are four times more likely than heterosexual men to seriously consider suicide throughout their life, bisexual men are almost six and a half times more likely, and while suicidal thoughts tend to decrease as the person passes From adolescence to adulthood, recent studies show that this is not the case for bisexuals.
  So it's not surprising that we are actually tired of being told we have it easier than gays.

"It's normal to be confused about your sexuality."


  If someone tells you that they are bisexual, they have told you that they are not confused, they have told you that they know what they are. Bisexuality can be a confusing subject for you, but not because bisexuals are confused, it's because you are.

  When you tell us that it is okay for us to be confused, you are not only denying that we know what we feel, but also denying that bisexuality is a legitimate sexual identity.

 "It's so cool you're bisexual!"


  Well yes, it may be pretty cool for us, but in reality, it's part of who we are, not because we're trying to be fashionable or looking for attention, and we resent the fact that you're implying that's what it's all about.

  Anyway, we'd rather you do not make our sexuality sound exotic, like some pink crystal from Tibet or something. This implies that we are so different from other people. Sure, we like more of a genre, but we still have to brush our teeth and take out the trash just like you.

  Well, we have the super invisibility power, but it's not really as romantic as you think.

  Good try to be a good person, but you make us feel a bit like creatures from another planet in search of attention.

"In truth, everyone is bisexual."


  What are you talking about? To say that everyone is bisexual is like saying that no one is bisexual, and that we should identify ourselves as gay or straight as they are all bisexual as well.

  If you think that everyone is bisexual, you should think a little stronger about your own sexuality, because you should see it reflected in you. The truth is that if you identify as gay or heterosexual and say that everyone is bisexual, we start to ask ourselves if you are bisexual and you are not ready to admit it yet.

  If you are sure that you are not bisexual, then stop saying that everyone is, because that messes up our realities and minimizes our problems.

 "It's fun to experiment before you settle down!"


  Hooray, experiment! Hey, hey! DO NOT! This is not games and fun for us. It is our lives. Additionally, it is not something temporary that we do until we find the perfect match. If we decide to settle down with someone romantically, we will remain completely bisexual, even if we are in a monogamous relationship.

  Do not turn our sexual orientation into some frivolous nonsense for which we need your blessing. Take us seriously if you want us to take your support seriously, but give yourself 30 lashes for insulting us, and do not speak to us again until you have read 30 articles on BiNet USA's Facebook page.

  From heterosexual men to bisexual women: "I am so drawn to women that I can not blame you for being attracted to them as well."


  Blame us! Who even considers this? Why has that thought crossed your mind? Obviously, you are having difficulty reconciling with your own sexuality.

  Additionally, you are saying that perhaps you have a problem with bisexual men, because you are not attracted to men. Is the sexuality of any person only acceptable if you can directly identify with it?

  Sit on a hill and meditate a little on this, then come back to me and tell me that you accept us for who we are because, well, that is who we are, and well for us for not trying to be someone we are not.

"It's probably best if you do not tell anyone about your gay side and just marry someone of the opposite sex, you know, so you can live a normal life."


  It's hard to see that maybe you're trying to help, when we're busy trying to resist the urge to tear our hair out, or yours, in response to this intolerant ignorance. It is no advantage living a lie. We are honest with you because we want to be our authentic form, because any advantage we receive by hiding our being has the price of dying a slow emotional agony.

  Also, if you think it's easy to turn off the feelings we have for a person because their gender lends

  itself to a "normal" life, think twice.

  Worst of all, is that with this comment, you have shown that you think that being bisexual is not "normal". Perhaps what you really mean is that it would be easier for you if we kept our feelings hidden.

 "You are bisexual? Oh that's OK."


  Although the feeling seems positive, the message really is not. The fact is, we do not need you to tell us it's all right; we already know. You should not need to say it's okay if you think it really is. Obviously, to some degree you have problems accepting our sexual identity.

  If you discover that a person likes to read novels, would you say "oh, alright"? Of course not, because of course it's fine. This is how you should feel about when someone tells you that they are bisexual. You just have to listen and accept without question.

"How exciting! Man, I bet you have the best sex! Do you want to join my wife and me? "


  If you and your wife are very attractive, there are some of us who might consider joining, if only you'd been less disgusting to ask.

  But many bisexuals would feel repulsed and offended by such a proposition. Many bisexuals are not interested in triplets or more people in sexual relationships and there are some within us who do not have much, or especially interesting, sex.

  The fact is, some gay people and some heterosexuals like to have more than two people in bed, and some do not - it's the same for bisexuals. Assuming we would like to receive an invitation like this from anyone at any time, it makes us feel disrespectful and dirty.

  Do not let the representation of bisexuals in the pornographic industry distort our reality. Have the decency to talk to us about the same basic civility that you would automatically offer to anyone else.

 "How lucky for you, as Woody Allen says, 'Being bisexual doubles the chances of having a date on Saturday night.'"


  Lucky for the bisexuals living in the fantasy life you have you and Woody Allen. But from us who live in the real world, thank you for reminding us how difficult it is to date someone when you are bisexual.

  Because the biphobia that calls us treacherous and indiscreet is so unbridled, to be bisexual rather than multiply the chances of being rejected. While you're busy congratulating yourself on your witty and supportive commentary, we're going to see how many messages with "I would never date a bisexual!" Are waiting for us on OK Cupid.

  Anyway, check your math. Only a small percentage of men are interested in hanging out with other men, so a man who is bisexual can not have twice as many opportunities as a heterosexual man to get a date.


  By the way, we've heard it a thousand times.