2017/02/19

Bisexual star

  • Tom Cruise
 a long time, Tom cruise was suspected to be a typical Hollywood gay, and he divorced nicole kidman also confirm this. But Tom cruise has always denied the "abnormal" relationship, and quickly find a supermodel holmes, marry and have children, trying to put an end to his bisexuality gossip. Fact: but after the divorce of holmes cruise is actually love a man, she has also caught him in bed. And the media doubt the man's football star David Beckham.


  • Lindsay Lohan
 in 2008, Hollywood actress Lindsay Lohan in the magazine, saying he is bisexual, but refused to admit that he is gay.

3,
  • Angelina Jolie
 Hollywood primary sense godmother Angelina jolie since with brad Pitt has been constantly. She also confessed to bisexual and claim to like the sm. Jolie's image has always been very independent, the comments more proved her personality. However, in recent years, in addition to Peter, she no longer dated former girlfriends.


4, 
  • John Travolta
: Hollywood superstar John travolta once happy family life, but someone recently also revealed he had a gay boyfriend fell in love and deep, with photos, for example. At that time people are not sure, John travolta whether gay or bisexual.
  • Will Smith
 Hollywood box office star, will Smith has always been referred to as the Hollywood model husband, but the media revealed that will in Japan to promote new suspected of prostitution, and is a male prostitute, bisexual gossip and therefore will emerge.

  • Megan Denise Fox
 a new generation of sexy goddess megan fox is revealing a bisexual. She said she like and women love relationship, but firmly won't consider dating bisexual woman, because she didn't want to share the same woman and another man. Megan think people naturally are bisexual, knee-jerk decisions because of social pressure.

8, 
  • Katharine Hepburn
 the United States has published a series of disclosure of Hollywood history books in the series said Katherine Hepburn is bisexual. Open the books you will see, "golden age" of the private lives of celebrities have much in common with the show business. Katherine Hepburn's biography, says Catherine and her lover spencer Tracy - are bisexual.

9, 
  • Madonna Ciccone
: Madonna has also been various media report is bisexual. Each time concert, Madonna wants to play crazy with actress big kiss, if it is a sign of her character, so the dribs and drabs of life, and her husband broke also faintly, "tells us that the entertainment circle one more bisexual.

10, Johnny Depp, new love, ever revealing is "bisexual" in over a year and a half after passionately in love, the famous actor Johnny Depp, with little girlfriend YiMeiBai hill engaged! , according to people magazine reports the earlier last week, the hill at a restaurant by paparazzi witnessed the diamond ring on her ring finger of left hand. Relevant personage also confirmed that "they were very happy and engaged, also very excited for life".

2017/02/14

Be careful!

Men who have sex with men ten things should be discussed with a doctor
1) AIDS, HIV, safe sex
2) the use of the chemical
3) depression and anxiety
4) hepatitis b immune
5) prostate cancer, testicular cancer, colorectal cancer
6) sexually transmitted diseases
7) alcohol
8) tobacco
Fitness (9) to go on a diet and exercise)
10) anus papilloma 




Female female actors 10 things should be discussed and doctors
1) breast cancer
2) depression and anxiety
3) gynecological cancer
(4) fitness diet and exercise)
5) use of the chemical
6) tobacco
7) alcohol
8) domestic violence
9) osteoporosis
10) heart health 


Take good care of yourself!

  Take good care of yourself to learn more from consultation related to their health. Distributed to the public consultation may not suitable for us, for example, the doubles bisexual and female bisexuality is several different cancer high-risk groups. One of the reasons is that many people are difficult to obtain the appropriate health services, but anyway, bisexual people are responsible for themselves, for routine inspection and some diagnostic procedures. Another reason is that some social and cultural influence increases the risk for the us. Our mental health is also affected by by the reality of bisexual.
, in the process of acceptance to bisexual people the pressure is bigger than other heterosexual population, and we also is not necessarily healthy ways to cope. According to statistics, smoking, drinking, risky activities (no protective behavior, drug use, drug) will influence your body healthy. Bi love the risk of anorexia or bulimia is higher than normal, female bisexuality is susceptible to obesity and cardiovascular disease. We should pay close attention to their health more actively.

Practice safe sex

  Peace of mind to discuss security options with a doctor is very important. Although sexually transmitted diseases by the end of the 1980 s has been greatly reduced, but the probability of bisexual suffer from this kind of disease is still higher than the average person. The importance of safe sex is self-evident.

Sexually transmitted diseases

  Except for gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis that can cure disease, suffering from AIDS, HIV and hepatitis, these fatal diseases is increasing in the number of gay men. (health Canada, 2005). Gay groups of gonorrhea infection is especially worrying, the virus resistant to typical prescription of antibiotics has performance.

Human papillomavirus (HPV) : generally underestimated threat

  Human papillomavirus (HPV) can be through a variety of viruses cause warts, although the warts can be cured, but the virus can exist in the human body for years. The carriers under the condition of knowing the disease easily infect not careful sex partners, and the more serious consequences than warts. For men, the virus can severely increase the penis carcinoma and the incidence of anal cancer. The disease can be transmitted by skin contact, monitoring and control risk is the only way is to practice safe sex, regular check (anal smears) cancer.

Homophobic harassment and abuse, violence family

  We are all likely to be victims of homophobic violence and harassment. Bi is not the problem, "fear of double" is the problem. Some threats neither from a stranger, also do not come from our people who want to avoid; But we want to get in the comfort and protection of the relationship. If you're in sexual abuse, don't talk to others, don't think of it as a secret. Abuse will not end because suffer serious emotional and physical trauma, silence is not in helping to partner.

To cope with stress

  Compressive strength  is measured by our ability to release the negative emotions. Male and female bisexuality under higher than the average person's daily pressure, so we need to keep energetic lifestyle. Otherwise, we will struggle with all the day long way of life good or bad, eventually suffer from stress disorders.
  Effective compression method usually need their own subconscious. Sometimes, forget trouble and friends copolymerization method is often cigarettes, alcohol and drugs; But do not prevent deliberate and adopt more lasting exercise or meditation course.
  Try to find a healthy and enjoyable way to release the pressure. Exercise is one of the best choice, but carry out creative work and volunteer work is also very good. Chat and support themselves can always help you through the hard times, but it's also important to spend time alone strategy.
  Must be careful with those in some extent to bring harm their short-term solution, even over-the-counter drugs also exists certain risk. If it is necessary to take measures to improve sleep or alleviate pressure, might as well talk to a doctor to find out a solution. Even after using drugs should not cause any problems. 

2017/02/08

Is this your confusion ?

The following are some bisexual teens may encounter confusion, here to share with you:
I normal?
I is how it happened?
I'm sure? This is not my illusion?
How can I become such a person?
What will others think of me?
Where there is the matter with me?
What did I do, should have such karma?
If the parents don't me what should I do?
How to outwit the matter?
God will not allow such a thing?
Maybe I am not to think about it!
I will not get AIDS and die?
I can't do in my life a heterosexual?
People will think I'm serious, or just feel my mind is a little bit messy? 
We live in a heterosexual socialist society. And what this means is that people's way of thinking or behavior is "everyone should be heterosexual" guided such inner thoughts. Some people see the contrary to the idea, will feel uncomfortable, this is the performance that homophobia. Homophobia can let a small bar owner saw two girls complain incessantly when kissing, or out of the way people and holding hands pass two men cringe. We often proud because of their distinctive characteristics, but society will jump to conclusions about sex minority groups. This may be because the public lack of widespread recognition of sexual orientation; Most people don't know that sexual orientation and other human characteristics also have diversity. Once upon a time, even the left-handed people are not accepted; Today, even become the gay community for social equality and sooner or later.
"Fear of double" not only exists in the society, also exist in the gay community. Many gay people will be very easy to understand and accept as the feeling of the homosexual or heterosexual, but can't accept the bisexual free in between this concept. Others believe that the AIDS into heterosexual group's the culprit is bisexual people. This view is clearly wrong, the spread of HIV/AIDS in heterosexual couples will only more slowly, because of their greater use of condoms, and the precautions.
However, you will face some challenges; But the court will always on your side. Canada in gay, lesbian and bisexual people fight for equal rights has taken a very positive attitude, mainstream attitude also improved accordingly. Now, with (double) bisexual people almost as much as heterosexual people enjoy equal legal status. In addition, there are many special acceptance of the contribution of this group, because they are different. But if you want to live in a world without discrimination, the road ahead is still a long way to go.
Not everyone in childhood has solved the sexual orientation. Some people can't hold their feelings, until the late adulthood to accept his homosexuality. Others until you meet the let them in emotional and physical passion bloom the person, we can truly awakening. There are people whole life pretending to be straight, they live like heterosexuals, marry and have children, but the neglect and hide their own emotional way is not a long-term solution. Those lifetime disguised themselves immersed in pain all his life (physical and psychological, interpersonal communication, realize the goal of life pain, etc.). No matter how good at pretending, we real side will emerge. 
So, don't be afraid, be yourself !

2017/02/07

Do bi is normal

  All living creatures (humans, animals and plants, fish and so on) survives the jagged .
  In humans, we have different skin color, hair color, height, weight, left-handed and right-handed and intelligence, and so on. Society has to accept red hair normally, left-handed, or blue eyes, so the existence of bisexual is also a natural thing.
  Research is showed that the formation of a human orientation was birth to after the birth of the influence of various factors. These effects (both in terms of genes, hormones, mood, nutrition and environmental perspective) are common in the process of the growth of a person plays a role, eventually shape a person's character, sexual orientation and gender. Each of us is unique; To find out the second in the world and the rest of us.
  Bi is not a state of mind, because you can't decide which kind of people attract), but a state of being (but also part of the real structure of human). Imitate the homosexual behavior or to participate in the activities of gay doesn't make you become a gay. Because we can always choose to your behavior, but also continuously according to their own needs to change frequently, but sexual orientation is not people choose. State whether we accept it or not, there is a self-evident things, perhaps we could ignore it temporarily, but can't always choose to escape.
  Bi can't decide what kind of people we are, it's just part of our identity, help us to shape his own personality. Human behavior is protean, its difficult to resort to language form of diversity. Whether to discuss sexual orientation, race, religion or personality, the diversity of human expression can guarantee the uniqueness of each individual. When we talk about sex diversity (sexual orientation, thoughts, feelings and emotions), and discussing how to express their sexual identity. Some men will appear more feminine than others, and the other men think take (typical) masculine behavior will let oneself psychologically more comfortable. Gender map covers many gender-related behavior from extreme to extreme masculine feminine behavior (behavior), but the behavior is not decided to become a man or a woman we must follow a certain pattern. They are just part of our this special existence as an individual, can't decide how we should fall in love with the man.
  The causes of the formation of bisexual indescribably indeed. Scientists conducted experiments in an attempt to look for the answer. The current evidence that sexual orientation had decided early embryo in the womb. This could be the result of a gene, also may be caused by some accidental factors. In a more scientific explanation clearly before, many people will continue to believe that sexual orientation is the result of the combination of genetic and early childhood influence. But we already know, many other human natural inclination (as do gifts or special talents).
  Some people as early as the age of three, to realize that their difference. This is a kind of instinct, but we also receive signals from around the world. We will find that their attitude with their peers or sensitivity is different. This different to the maturation period is increasingly obvious, because at that time we began to develop its own physical and psychological charm. But some people feel fear, so trying to resist (or deny) their ideas or physiological impulse, even if these impulses again confirmed our opinion of himself. When others treat their identity, then there will be a gradual cognitive process.
  Those in adolescence is aware of their attractive people will face a longer sexual orientation. They may think these feelings is adolescence hormone at work, and hope that this is only a brief period is coming to an end. Others may feel weird or abnormal, and worry that they will be punished for misconduct. "Questions" is a normal process, it provides us with the opportunity to look to their own true feelings. 

2017/02/06

5 big misconceptions about bisexual

  Bisexual actually in this world than you imagined. Many people stubbornly believe that bisexuality is different from normal special existence. Buzz Feed recently interviewed several bisexual, hope to break all the rumors of bisexual and misunderstanding. These rumors unfounded not only, more important is that they even affect a lot of bisexual people's lives. So in the long run, to break the rumor to reduce the damage to them is necessary.
  In the interview, they take "I am bisexual, but I don't..." As the breakthrough point, expressed the people to bisexual preconceived notions.
As bisexual, their heart is not chaos, also need not special to differentiate themselves to a certain gender, continuous and highly subjective they think sexual attraction. People for bisexual misconceptions usually concentrated in the following places: 
  1. Bi is a kind of "experiment"
  Is essentially a bisexual doesn't mean need to through a lot of contact between men and women to "find their own status". Bisexual people never doubt their position, they also do not need to try to understand yourself if you really interested in both men and women.
  2. Bi is the expression of the greedy
  Because bi interested in both men and women, all bisexual is generally regarded as the performance of the greedy winner-take-all (want), but all the people are greedy in love, and also the number of bisexual very common, it is not necessary to camouflage themselves and against his heart.
  3. The bisexual are more likely to cheat
  Just because someone you dating more than one gender, does not mean that they may go to the pursuit of every one of us. A heterosexual male may interested in N a girl, but the bisexual this life may be only interested in 3 people! Yes, are you interested in the human not because of your gender, but because of the other party to your feelings, so there is no certain people are more likely to love affairs.
  4. Bisexual promiscuity more easily
  To multiple gender inductive does not mean that the desire is very strong. Also, not all bisexual are fond of the company ". Combat objects of different personal only, and doesn't have any contact of this ethnic group.
  5. Bi must have no religious beliefs
  Bi can, of course, have their own religious beliefs, bisexual can only determine the people interested in both men and women, in addition to this there is no other. 
Above is the common people for bisexual misunderstanding, but I believe that there will be more and more people can understand and bisexual group in the face. Also hope that those who own sex to have doubts, or fears can for themselves and have a deeper understanding of this group. bisexualo ffish.com  is a gathering the bisexual websites of all ages in all walks of life, if you want to more in-depth understanding, might as well know them more, believe that you will find the answer yourself.