2017/02/08

Is this your confusion ?

The following are some bisexual teens may encounter confusion, here to share with you:
I normal?
I is how it happened?
I'm sure? This is not my illusion?
How can I become such a person?
What will others think of me?
Where there is the matter with me?
What did I do, should have such karma?
If the parents don't me what should I do?
How to outwit the matter?
God will not allow such a thing?
Maybe I am not to think about it!
I will not get AIDS and die?
I can't do in my life a heterosexual?
People will think I'm serious, or just feel my mind is a little bit messy? 
We live in a heterosexual socialist society. And what this means is that people's way of thinking or behavior is "everyone should be heterosexual" guided such inner thoughts. Some people see the contrary to the idea, will feel uncomfortable, this is the performance that homophobia. Homophobia can let a small bar owner saw two girls complain incessantly when kissing, or out of the way people and holding hands pass two men cringe. We often proud because of their distinctive characteristics, but society will jump to conclusions about sex minority groups. This may be because the public lack of widespread recognition of sexual orientation; Most people don't know that sexual orientation and other human characteristics also have diversity. Once upon a time, even the left-handed people are not accepted; Today, even become the gay community for social equality and sooner or later.
"Fear of double" not only exists in the society, also exist in the gay community. Many gay people will be very easy to understand and accept as the feeling of the homosexual or heterosexual, but can't accept the bisexual free in between this concept. Others believe that the AIDS into heterosexual group's the culprit is bisexual people. This view is clearly wrong, the spread of HIV/AIDS in heterosexual couples will only more slowly, because of their greater use of condoms, and the precautions.
However, you will face some challenges; But the court will always on your side. Canada in gay, lesbian and bisexual people fight for equal rights has taken a very positive attitude, mainstream attitude also improved accordingly. Now, with (double) bisexual people almost as much as heterosexual people enjoy equal legal status. In addition, there are many special acceptance of the contribution of this group, because they are different. But if you want to live in a world without discrimination, the road ahead is still a long way to go.
Not everyone in childhood has solved the sexual orientation. Some people can't hold their feelings, until the late adulthood to accept his homosexuality. Others until you meet the let them in emotional and physical passion bloom the person, we can truly awakening. There are people whole life pretending to be straight, they live like heterosexuals, marry and have children, but the neglect and hide their own emotional way is not a long-term solution. Those lifetime disguised themselves immersed in pain all his life (physical and psychological, interpersonal communication, realize the goal of life pain, etc.). No matter how good at pretending, we real side will emerge. 
So, don't be afraid, be yourself !

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